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What are the underlying causes of fear of rejection?

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2025-03-11 1009

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If I have to say no unconditionally, I don't feel very uncomfortable. Because there is a clear reason.
However, I feel uncomfortable when I have to say no with my simple mind. Because the reason is only one of my heart, it reminds me of the idea that the other person will be disadvantaged because of me.
That proposition is the cause of fear of rejection. And accordingly, the expected reaction of the opponent also plays a role. If he or she shows a reaction that is not positive and sad or in trouble, I also feel down. So there are times when I can't help but refuse the other person's request regardless of my intention.

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Hello, Seo Yeon~
I agree that rejection can sometimes be just as difficult/painful as saying no to anything. Positively, though, it also suggests redirecting to greater chances ^__^.
Chammy
If I have to say no unconditionally, I don't feel very uncomfortable. Because there is a clear reason.
>> If I have to say no unconditionally, I don't feel very uncomfortable because there is a clear reason.
Or
>> I don't feel guilty when I have to say no for valid reasons.
However, I feel uncomfortable when I have to say no with my simple mind. Because the reason is only one of my heart, it reminds me of the idea that the other person will be disadvantaged because of me.
>> However, I feel uncomfortable when I have to say no with my simple mind because the reason is only one of my heart; it reminds me of the idea that the other person will be disadvantaged because of me.
OR
>> However, I find it difficult to say no for simple reasons since it makes me feel bad about myself and makes me think that the other person will feel hurt because of me.
That proposition is the cause of fear of rejection.
>>Correct
And accordingly, the expected reaction of the opponent also plays a role. 
OR
>> As a result, the other side's anticipated response also matters.
If he or she shows a reaction that is not positive and sad or in trouble, I also feel down.
 So there are times when I can't help but refuse the other person's request regardless of my intention.
>>Correct
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